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Let’s Talk Length – Is 9 Inches a Good Size?

Published 19 May 2021

Guys love to see how they measure up; from cars to clothes… there is no shortage of things you can size yourself up to. For their sexual partners, you can guarantee they are sizing you up – at least in that way. But bigger isn’t always better (sort of). Which brings up the question, is there an ideal penis size? Do all partners just want a big penis? Well, the short answer (no pun intended) is no. But also; yes. Confused? Let’s try and unwrap this myth.

The pressure to be packing some serious BDE, or ‘big dick energy’ is pushed on guys in all forms of media. From songs to commercials, movies, and social media – over-emphasising the size of male genitals has become its own cultural phenomenon. But like a lot of things entertainment driven, it’s mostly fake, over-hyped and unrealistic. When it comes to size, packing a big penis is more a myth than reality for most men (and their partners!)


Most men wish they had a larger penis. Whether it is fueled by ego, sexual prowess, or insecurity – men tend to equate masculinity to the size of their penis. But an ideal penis size, believe it or not, according to most women – isn’t the big swinging monster. In fact, biologically speaking, a penis larger than 6 to 7 inches can be uncomfortable and reduce the pleasure your partner receives.

Is a 9 inches penis too big for women? The human body was designed for the average sized penis (around 5.5 inches) to fit comfortably inside both women and men. It gives both partners a chance for maximum stimulation and pleasure. So, one might wonder… is 9 inches a good size? Chances are a 9-inch penis or longer probably isn’t what most partners are interested in. But there’s always exceptions.

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With the average penis size under 6 inches, most men have no idea just how average they really are. In fact, less than 15% of all men have an erect penis larger than 7 inches. Any if you want to go even bigger – you’ll have to look a lot harder. Less than 2% of men have penis 8 inches or larger. So, when you look around a crowded room, chances are almost every guy you see has the same sized penis as you.


Some men still feel they want to be larger, and there are some options. If you talk with a doctor and what both of you are convinced that 9 inches is a good size, then penis enlargement surgery is the most effective, invasive, and riskiest procedure. In involved making an incision around the base of the penis. Doctors then pull the shaft of fibrous muscle and tissues farther out from inside the body, effectively making the penis longer. Others have tried ‘penis pumps’ which essentially creates pressure around the penis, drawing excessive amounts of blood into its blood vessels, and swelling the size of the penis (to very a very small degree). But this isn’t permanent and lead to sensitively damage blood vessels around the penis. There are no magic pills you can take either to grow the size of your penis, beyond its normal erect shape. (Which is most likely already the ideal penis size).


Partners you are intimate with will tell you they prefer a good lover over one with a bigger than average penis size and no skills to use it. Imagine a high-performance sports car and knowing how get the most out of its engine, and to finesse it around the track at high speed, is a more satisfying experience than an 18-wheeler ploughing its way around the track and crashing into everything in sight.

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